There are many ways to use your fingers to make a girl go crazy, and some of the best are to be found by simple exploration - try different things, different numbers of fingers, different parts of her pussy and ass, and be innovative and inventive. Some of the best fingering…
The earlier post about the G-Spot was a reblog written directly to a male audience hoping to ‘conquer’ the mysteries of the G-Spot. (Read: heteronormative.)
Please… you don’t need a penis to find the G-Spot. And you sure as hell don’t need a male to find pleasure! Here’s how to do it YOURSELF.
It was a male perspective since im a man. only in part of my article you see that you need a penis, and you dont need one to have ANY orgasm.
in reality, i don´t see any difference between both, only the effort to call it ” to woman”.
In most cases you ejaculate, the difference is how much.
milky fluid is for normal and clitoral orgasm, G-Spot gives you a fluid one.
the smell is different yes, and also depends of what you eat, ex: spicy gives you bitter, chocolate, sweet.
and yes, i already taste it.
I just fainted. I need to change my panties, too.
I had no idea this wasn’t common knowledge… What the fuck have the rest of you fellas been doing, apart from letting the side down?
Also should be noted that you should not blow raspberries on it just as she is about to cum. Do. Not. Want.
Amazing what people imagine about them (Brazilian girls).
Since im in Europe im close to ear some telling s, not always true.
- They have the best ass in the world:
that’s a fact, afcorse that not all, but the best ass come from there.
-They are horny all the time:
not true, depends on the woman, lots of them don’t even like sex.
-They are the best in bed:
same, depends, lots of times its only talk and nothing more.
-They love you:
if you get lucky, most of them just want to get out of the country a get a asshole to pay their bills and give her a better life, then they dump the guy off.
i knew lots of them, all the same, same talk, same imagination, they all look systers lol.
like most of them, they are full of confidence, we talked over the net for a few months, it was daily.
we were almost boyfriend and girlfriend, time passed and she told me that before she go home (she was in an Euro country in vacations) she was passing by mine for a few days before flying to Brasil.
we marked a day so i could pick her on the train station in a big city close to my home.
that day came, i was in the train station with a rose in my hand waiting for her… waited about an hour (trains here always late).
she droped the train and we exchange looks, i came close grab her by her body and give a big kiss, after it i give the rose…
she was amazed and surprised, by the rose and the kiss.
we sit for a while, talk and decided to go to the hotel to put our bags, as we did…
in the hotel nothing happened, just bags in place, and we runned to the city, i showed the city to her, that afternoon, we were more kissing and rushing our bodies then seeing the sites.
i was already with my dick big and hard, and she was already wet (i felt it), we agreed that was time to get back to the hotel and finish some unfinished business.
several times she told me she was very hot, she loved sex and told me that until that day, no man dropped her off in sex (she loved to have more then once to get happy).
i though to myself, im fucked, im used to 1, in some exceptions twice, im fucked…
we went to the hotel and jumped to the bed, the clodes disappear fast, and soon we only have our panties on.
i started to kiss, lick and suck her big and hard brests (DD), came down to belly and played above her panties for a few.
she put her panties to the side so i could lick it, so i did, i licked her lips, clit, vagina and ass like if was my last day on earth..
1 orgasm came fast, then other, and other, and other…. she begged me to fuck her, she couldn’t hold it anymore, she wanted my dick inside, wanted to feel it.
i agreed with her request and put it inside in one strike (she already flooded the sheets with cum)…
i bang her hard and fast, wild sex, all holes were filled, one by one, i fucked her ass in same manner, she screamed with pleasure calling me names, saying fuck me hard, what a fucking good cock, fuck my ass, fill it with milk….
it lasted 2 days, fucked her 5 times, each taked 4 hours filling every hole she have and sucking and liking all his body, we only stoped to eat, drink and smoke, and fuck again.
i came 5 times, she… i lost my count, in the last i was ready for the 6th, but she begged, no more, she was beated for the first time and fucked like never was before…
i was lucky to have the pleasure to fuck someone like her, she was a fucking vulcano, the best fuck in my life in all aspects.
THANK YOU J. i will never forget you and those 2 days, were the best….
ps: we can always to more and better, only depends on the moment and company, i have luck, and u?
with love SomeonePT….
G-SPOT or Grafenberg Spot.
For lots is a fantasy, to others it´s Heaven.
It is real?
yes, it is real and one of the main effect that leads to Squirt and BIG orgasms.
what exactly is the g-spot?
It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it — especially if you learn how to master the woman’s G-spot effectively.
It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The “front” wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.
the best way to find the g-spot
First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don’t stint on your foreplay first. (You knew I would get that in!)
To locate and master the woman’s G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a “come hither” motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this — sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the “G-spot,” and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.
If you don’t get a reaction, don’t be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within, not on the outside of, the vaginal wall.
Sometimes it helps to use your other hand on the outside of the mons pubis (the hairy area above the pubic bone) to lightly massage the skin in the area where your crooked finger is touching to intensify the effect. And since not all women are G-spot sensitive, don’t get discouraged if you can’t get a special reaction.
While some women are capable of multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot, others don’t get much of a feeling and some even feel discomfort from G-spot stimulation.
No worries — every woman will appreciate the attention and the effort! And while searching, you might discover other areas in her vagina that she responds to even more enthusiastically.
tapping into love
The best way to manually stimulate the G-spot is with a firm “tapping” motion with your crooked finger. Some guys find it easier to stimulate the G-spot with various toys. Any dildo can be used for this, but the ones that are best suited for G-spot stimulation are hard and curved. Many are made specifically for G-spot stimulation, as their length, width and curve are specifically designed to take the “guesswork” out of G-spot stimulation.
Even women who do not enjoy manual stimulation of the G-spot may enjoy penile stimulation of the spot during intercourse. So, if your penis has a natural upward bend, you’ve got it made. Other men have to find positions that maximize penile contact with the front wall of the vagina. The “woman on top” positions and posterior (doggy style) positions are best for achieving that contact.
The only way to get G-spot stimulation in the missionary position is to prop her hips up with pillows (or with a special wedge known as “The Liberator”). Women can also intensify their ability to have G-spot orgasms by learning to contract their pelvic muscles, known as Kegel exercises.
sex gets better with age
There is some evidence that the intensity of a woman’s G-spot orgasm is mediated by the hormone estrogen. Most young women under 30 find clitoral orgasms to be more powerful because, due to their relatively high estrogen levels, their vaginal lining becomes too thick to allow direct stimulation of their G-spot nerves.
As the estrogen level begins to decline in women during their 30s, the vaginal lining becomes thinner and the G-spot becomes more accessible. That’s why most women feel that they begin to peak sexually in their early to mid-30s.
Dr. Victoria Zdrok earned her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from Drexel University, a J.D. from Villanova Law School and her certificate in sex therapy from New Jersey School of Medicine. She is the author of Anatomy of Pleasure, and is the monthly sex advice columnist for Penthouse Magazine (for whom she was 2004 Pet of the Year). You can ask her questions three times a week on her radio talk show at ElectricEyeRadio.com, or visit her at her website, SexySexpert.com
SQUIRT and G-SPOT
Make Her Ejaculate
Some women don’t know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others — those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.
Although we’d like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they’re not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that’s their prerogative.
Nevertheless, if you are with a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today’s tip on female ejaculation is going to leave you soaking wet.
Before you make her ejaculate
A woman’s ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all (the juice is released from the Skene’s glands, or urethral sponge), if your girl doesn’t have complete control over her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, there is a chance that she may actually pee all over you.
If this does end up happening, be cool about it. Think about it; it’s normal for her to feel as though she’s about to urinate when she’s about to ejaculate. If she tries to hold it in, she won’t ejaculate; she has to let go. If she does end up urinating, and you trip out on her, she’ll never try this again. Accept the golden shower, and don’t freak out.
Let her go with it; eventually she’ll learn the difference between the sensations. And although you can manipulate her vagina all you like, if your woman is inhibited, then chances are she won’t be able to reach this pinnacle of sexual satisfaction. She may even get annoyed by the feeling, so make sure she wants it.
OK, so she wants it. If you’re about ready to start seeking the liquids, read on to find out what you have to do.
Make her ejaculate with your fingers
While there are some women who can ejaculate through clitoral stimulation, or through other sex play (penile penetration or even breast-sucking), the most effective way to achieve this outcome is through G-spot manipulation with your hands.
Obviously, we’re not implying that you should head directly for the G-spot when you’re trying to make her ejaculate. Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first — get her “pumped,” so to speak. Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, with your palm facing up. But don’t stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can’t do two things at a time).
About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin — that’s the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure; it may start to become more solid; just keep doing what you’re doing.
Tip: Use your other hand to gently press down on the area between her navel and her mons pubis (her pubic mound) for increased stimulation.
If she tells you that she feels like she’s about to urinate, assure her that it’s near impossible for her to pee and that she should just let go. Although her instincts may be to hold back, reassure her with encouraging words.
As she begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a cup. Have some towels handy.
After she gushes like crazy, chances are she’ll want a break because her vagina might become extremely sensitive (think of the head of your penis after you ejaculate). So, don’t go for a second round right away unless you get the distinct impression that she’s ready for more.
Keep getting the goods
Achieving the almighty squirt may not be as simple as described above; it may take some experimentation, persuasion and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside.
For example, have her lie down on the bed, face up, and kneel next to her (your body should be facing her belly button). While your fingers are stimulating her G-spot, use your other hand and your mouth to manipulate her nipples.
You could also opt to rotate between penile penetration and finger penetration in the doggy-style position.
And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone, so place her on a surface where her vagina easily meets your penis and penetrate her, making sure only your penis connects your bodies.
And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your woman get in touch with her juicier side.
keep on simulating
Every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It’s up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and make her ejaculate all over you.
Until next time, get that juice.
I just want to be eaten out really well. I find it utterly disappointing that I have only ever been with one person that was super great at oral. And because I don’t have enough experience knowing what makes it great, I can’t give any suggestions to partners.
What can I say to someone to guide them in the right direction? And specific suggestions please, not just “say ‘oooh yeah, right there baby.’” That’s kind of in the realm of obvious.
Sorry to reply like this but i dident found any other way in notes to do it.
To me always depends on WHO you are with and the experience he have.
in my experience you should try like this:
- first see what kind of guy he is,
if he a shy guy take his head with your hands and guide him, while you do it, tell him what you want, “yesss, there”, “now slowwww, fuck yhea”, “suck me fasterrr, harder…”, “suck my lips… my clit, etc…”
dont have any problem in telling him what you need, were and how, but for the start that you are telling him without him to ask you, then is bad, you are fucking a moron.
if he is the macho kind of guy, dont waste time, just fake, get it over with and kick him, usually they think their good, dont know shit, over confident, and afcorse and not least, they think on their selfs, not in you or what you need.
Dont waste time with 5 minute fuck, means they dont know your body, they dont care, and dont give a fuck if you want or have an orgasm.
to me, at least 1 hour, 20 to 30 minutes of that time is sucking the ass, the labia, vagina, clit and the rest of the body, mainly a tung wash throw the entire body, sucking and licking…
the only exception is wild sex in a wall, even so i knee and pray, liking her cunt dry before i fuck hard….
the start to me is the most important, i call it “couvert” or “Entrance”, its the most important part, why?
most man can have an orgasm in 5 to 10 minutes, a woman usually need 20 to 30 minutes, the body resistance is also a factor, since a guy get tired faster (usually they do the workforce).
the entrance give us time to give you orgasms and to fuck you off, so when we go for the dick, you are already tired, satisfied, and ready for the finish….
hope i could be of assistance…
Hygiene in Men.
Every day I hear complaints about hygiene in men, and indeed almost all have reasons to be.
while women (the majority) has the notion of personal hygiene, men were not accustomed to it, but it is not an excuse.
this or similar product is for this reason, wash in a bidet and apply the proceeds of the way so that a shower gel.
Your gonna say .. damn, this is a product of a woman …. it was done for them, but it works very well for men, same result is clean, washed, and bacteria without smelling …
the next time they want a blowjob, Wash yourselves ….
ps: if you cant find this one in a drugstore close to you, ask for a similar one…
sorry, the product is Spanish
Some facts about the two.
Contrary to popular belief, Men do not like skinny women, quite the opposite, we like women who have somewhere to grasp, is a mistake to think that the more lean more men will show up.
we like breasts, large and juicy.
we like a nice ass, round and plump hard.
Labia maiora fleshy , labia minora medium / large.
and most importantly, who is a lady outside and a whore in bed.
we are not picky but if a man is serious we choose a clever one, if is to put her some horns above her head we then chose a model dumb as a door.
nobody likes to suck the bones, let the dogs do it….